Many men—especially young men—living in the West are acutely aware of the changing dynamics of relationship between the sexes. Not only are the vast majority of men slowly losing their value due to having their masculinity systematically repressed, but they are also faced with institutional biases in education and workplaces as well. In addition, their sexual thirst is also artificially inflating the value of women, which has led to a grotesque imbalance of relationship between the sexes. Such is the result of the deregulation of sexual marketplace.
This means that unless you are among the top echelon of men in terms of wealth, looks, intelligence, social status, and charm, you are probably the bottom 80 or 90 percent of men who are mere objects of utility and contempt. Modern Western women simply have no reason to respect men nor do they see most men as their equals. To expect women to treat you with fairness and decency without any solid reason is extremely foolish and even dangerous.
And why should they? What reason, beyond cursory politeness, do women have to treat their low-value male counterparts as their equals? Modern society offers women so much comfort and privilege that not only are today’s young women being better educated and better paid, but they also have the government support in extorting money from both their ex-husbands and tax payers. With government protection and financing, modern women can afford to be ‘independent’ from men. And this is the key point: Any species where the females don’t require the protection and providing of males, there exists a gross sexual dimorphism. Just take a look at certain insect species like spiders or praying mantises where the females are many times larger than the males whose only purpose in their existence is to offer sperm and be cannibalized by the female. The sexual relationship between the male and female Angler Fish is another example of gross imbalance of power that results from females having both sexual power and the power to hunt and protect themselves.
While humans are not bound by their genetics towards sexual dimorphism, the combination of current social conditions and human’s adaptive nature can effectively simulate it. Modern women, with their artificially constructed power, are practically a privileged class of their own over the majority of modern men who are now second-rate citizens.
To women, most men are disposable. There are far too many men and most are useless to a woman who sets her standards high—she knows she deserves only the best. Women know that they can afford to ignore, reject, and dismiss as many men as they can as there will be heaps of more men available to her. While feminists have fought bitterly for social equality between men and women, they quite deliberately ignored women’s power of sexual selection. This may be the reason why many women who push for gender equality are also fat and ugly with no sexual power; they must compensate for their short-comings by bashing men and other more attractive women.
That said, this problem is not limited to mere sexual selection. Women living in today’s cultural climate have been conditioned to be cynical and fearful when interacting with men. I myself have experienced women gawking at me and brushing me off just for asking for the time. I don’t have a single doubt in my mind that these same women would expect men to risk their lives and jump in to save them should they find themselves in trouble. Men are just garbage until women need them.
I’ve experienced similar attitude from female co-workers who ignore me for the most part until they need something from me. When needed, they will temporarily adjust their personality to look and sound all sweet and innocent. They will do this just long enough to squeeze out a favour from me and other male co-workers then return to their default mode as soon as they have obtained what they desired. To them, us men are mere utilities to be used and taken advantaged of. It doesn’t help that white knights and other supplicant males often volunteer their services without even being asked, further increasing women’s sense of entitlement from men.
It’s a fact of modern culture that, with the exception of a select few, modern women have contempt for men in general. Actually, maybe contempt is too strong of a word. Disassociation, exploitation, and a general dismissive attitude is probably more accurate. And if that is your experience as well, then you must face the fact that you are not a high value man—at least not in the eyes of women. If this is the case, you have two choices:
- Become a higher value man so that women will change their opinion of you.
- Live life in your own terms and become a better man independent of what women think.
Whichever path you choose, you must constantly build yourself and renew yourself into a better version of yourself. It’s best to disregard attracting women and simply work on increasing your value for your own sake. Spending time and energy trying to attract mates is what women do. As a man, as you become someone of higher value, women will naturally fall in line. If they don’t, they were never worth it. But no matter what, never let women’s opinion of you define you. Never let them decide who you are. They have no authority over you unless you allow it.